Community guidelines
Last updated: June 22, 2026
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Coffee After Work is a space for real people looking for genuine connections. These guidelines keep it safe, honest, and welcoming. Breaking them can lead to a warning, a suspension, or a permanent ban.
Be real
You must be 21 or older. Use your real name, recent photos of yourself, and honest details. We verify every profile with a selfie check, so fake, stolen, AI-generated, or impersonated profiles are removed.
Be respectful
Treat everyone the way you'd want to be treated. Harassment, hate speech, threats, bullying, and unsolicited explicit content are never allowed and lead to an immediate ban.
Respect consent
Features like Photo Reveal and Exclusive Chat work both ways on purpose. Never pressure anyone to reveal their photos, meet up, or share personal details before they're ready — and never share private chats or images without permission.
Keep it safe
No scams, soliciting, selling, advertising, or asking for money. Don't share another person's contact details, and keep conversations in the app until you trust someone.
Date with intention
Coffee After Work is for meeting people, not spamming them. Use it to find a real connection and plan real coffee dates — not to promote yourself, recruit, or collect followers.
Report and we act
If someone breaks these rules, unmatch, block, or report them. Reports are confidential and reviewed by our safety team, and we act on every one. See Staying safe & reporting.